Filmmaker at Midlife: In conversation with Brooke Berman

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Filmmaker at Midlife: In conversation with Brooke Berman
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“I had the awareness a couple of times while on set that I had been training to do this job my whole life.”

Brooke Berman is a first-time film director. She’s also a middle-aged woman, a mom, and a wife with a full writing career under her belt. In this conversation, we explore how she got to the point of directing her film, Ramona at Midlife, and what she learned in the process.

Brooke’s film is not autobiographical, but it’s deeply personal. Her main character navigates reigniting her friendship with two other midlife women writers, repairing her marriage, and taking control again of her story and her writing. The film is not unique in how it puts a middle-aged woman’s struggle front and center, but it is unusual in its avoidance of so many Hollywood tropes: Ramona’s life is not glamorous, her face is not botoxed, and in the course of the film, no one gets their comeuppance. Ramona simply learns to move on and grow.

It’s a lovely, life-affirming film, and Brooke is a wonderful conversationalist! [Click for transcript]

“My [college] roommate and I were sharing a babysitting job and on my night, I would say to them, so, um, it’s like nine, do you guys want to go to bed? And they would say, no. And I wouldn’t know what to do. And my roommate said, ‘Well, honey, you’re supposed to just tell them they have to. You’re supposed to just say, now you go to bed.’  And that’s still hard for me as a director. I don’t want to tell people what to do. I want them to come in with their impulses and us to all find it together.”

About Brooke Berman:

Brooke Berman is a filmmaker and playwright whose debut feature film Ramona at Midlife is currently streaming on Amazon, Apple TV and Vimeo. Brooke’s plays have been produced across the US and abroad at theaters like Steppenwolf, Primary Stages, The Humana Festival and others. Brooke’s memoir No Place Like Home was published by Random House in 2010 and is available on Audible. Brooke has taught writing at NYU, Bard, School of the New York Times and privately; she attended The Juilliard School and Barnard College.

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“Not Living at All” by Mr. Airplane Man courtesy of Freemusicarchive.org.

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